I hesitated for a long time about publishing a detailed list of possible gifts. Lately I’ve been asked often, though — so without implying that I expect gifts before, during, or after an escort date, I’ve put together a personal wishlist of things that would truly make me happy.
I especially appreciate gifts I rarely treat myself to in my down‑to‑earth way. I think you’ll learn more about me by seeing what I like and desire. For example…
An art monograph
A coffee‑table art book is a daily source of visual stimulus and constant inspiration for my work. Flicking through one always reveals new aspects that fascinate me. Maybe gift me a monograph of your favorite artist, or of someone whose exhibition you recently visited — museum shops in this country are full of wonderful catalogues. I’m especially drawn to painting and ornamentation. For example, I don’t yet own a book by Grayson Perry, Jonathan Meese, Hieronymus Bosch, Vermeer, Yayoi Kusama, Georgia O’Keeffe or Mark Rothko.
Diamonds are a girls best friend…
I never buy jewelry for myself. Every piece I own has a story. Some are old and once belonged to my great‑grandmother. Often there’s a person I felt close to, or a memory I think of when I wear a piece. Being a “warm” type, gold suits me — I don’t wear silver or platinum. My ring size is 55. I’m especially captivated by antique jewelry; it makes me dream. I love pieces where the craftsmanship still shows little imperfections and am fascinated by goldsmithing beyond clean lines. The jewelry I prefer is set with colorful stones or pearls, often a bit voluminous, perhaps slightly eccentric. I adore the (sometimes one‑of‑a‑kind) earrings by Grainne Morton.
Your favorite book
As I’ve said in so many places: feel free to gift me your favorite book. I believe you can learn so much about a person from the books they love, and I’ve discovered many fascinating things this way. I’m always on the lookout for new reads — even though whenever I finish a book from my pile, another one quickly takes its place.
Chocolate & more
Chocolate is something I truly enjoy every day. I’m especially fond of high‑quality dark chocolate and anything made with rich cocoa. My favorite dessert is fondant au chocolat with fresh berries or a chocolate fondue. I also love the unbelievably delicious (and even vegan) Booja‑Booja truffles — specifically the Chocolate Almond Salt Caramel flavor. I think salt and caramel belong in chocolate anyway — don’t you?
In general I’m a fan of good food and treats like olives, gourmet chocolate bars, walnut bread, jam, red wine, fresh fruit (especially strawberries), and whatever the local delicatessen offers. I also adore Läderach chocolate — especially their dark/vegan broken‑chocolate mix. What more can I say? It’s simply wonderful.
High Heels
You can never have too many shoes. Despite believing minimalism is healthiest for me and the planet, I adore high‑quality shoes and own more than a respectable person should. I love walking in high heels; I feel so sexy pairing a dress with beautiful heels — the feeling and the sound as I move. Sometimes just standing naked in high shoes or boots in front of a mirror turns me on (there you have it: my absolute weakness). I’m especially fond of Jimmy Choo, Casadei, and Louboutin — so many models I love, as long as they’re high. I wear size 39.5.
Sexy Dessous
Which woman doesn’t long for it? Hot lingerie that flatters the body, whisper‑thin lace, silky fabrics. I especially love pieces from Bordelle. Studio Pia is my new discovery and incredibly sexy. My size is M, cup 75B. Would you like to watch me move in lace lingerie and then take it off for you? Or gift me a voucher for Wolford — they have beautiful leggings and stockings.